Mulu is now 60 years old. Here she tells us in her words of the pain and distress caused by pelvic organ prolapse and how Hamlin’s Mekele Fistula Hospital turned her life around.
My name is Mulu, and I am 60 years old from Enderta Woreda.
I am a farmer and a mother of seven children.
Throughout all my pregnancies, I delivered my children at home without any medical assistance. I first felt discomfort during my first pregnancy but chose to ignore it, believing it to be a common issue for women. I didn’t confide in anyone, not even my children. I thought it was something I had to endure silently.
As the years passed, the situation worsened. The feeling of heaviness and pain in my lower abdomen became a constant companion, pressing down on me like an unbearable weight.
Simple tasks, like fetching water or tending to my farm, became excruciating.
I could feel a noticeable change in my body; something was wrong, but I didn’t know how to articulate it.
Walking long distances was almost impossible, and I often found myself in tears, wishing for relief. The embarrassment of my condition prevented me from seeking help, leaving me isolated in my suffering. I began to withdraw from social interactions, fearing others would notice my struggles.
I battled with feelings of hopelessness and despair. I felt like a prisoner in my own body, unable to fulfil my responsibilities as a mother and a productive member of my community.
I lived in constant fear of how my condition would affect my family’s livelihood. The pain overshadowed every aspect of my life.
One day, I confided in a neighbour about my suffering. She mentioned a hospital in Mekelle that treats patients like me, and that sparked a glimmer of hope. I asked my children to take me to this hospital (Hamlin Mekelle Fistula Hospital). They sought advice from our local health centre, and together, we made the journey.
At the hospital, I experienced exceptional care. They provided a variety of meals, clean bedding, and clothing, treating us with more kindness than I had known at home. If only I had known about this hospital sooner, I could have received help much earlier. I believe other women who suffer in silence, unaware of this facility, deserve the chance to be healthy and free from pain. Once I return to my community, I will share my story with my neighbours and encourage them to seek help if they experience similar problems.
I am going back to my family feeling happy and healthy. I want to express my heartfelt gratitude to the doctors, nurses, and kitchen staff for their unwavering support and care, which have helped me to heal and recover.
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